Trauma Chose
You didn’t ask for the battles.
You didn’t choose the scars.
But somewhere along the way, survival started speaking for you—and you listened.
What if it’s time to listen to something else?
This book is a doorway back to choice.
The rest is yours to decide.
This book is a rare gift—every reader will find something powerful within its pages. Whether you’re on your own healing journey or supporting someone through theirs, the insight offered here is practical, profound, and deeply necessary for navigating trauma.
Author. Coach. Speaker. Trainer. Presenter.
Merging Psychology & Education that Inspires Transformation, Elevates Awareness, and Sparks Meaningful Dialogue
Focus Areas
Coach Jae offers leadership and team coaching through a trauma-sensitive lens that transforms workplace culture from the inside out.
☑️ Builds self-awareness and emotional intelligence
☑️ Strengthens trust and communication within teams
☑️ Shifts mindsets toward growth, purpose, and shared success
Through practical, reflective coaching sessions, Coach Jae empowers individuals and groups to lead with confidence and clarity.
☑️ Increases morale and motivation
☑️ Supports asset-based thinking and collaboration
☑️ Fosters personal and professional growth
Coach Jae leads engaging, trauma-informed trainings that meet people where they are and guide them forward.
☑️ Interactive sessions that build real-world skills
☑️ Topics include communication, conflict response, & behavior strategies
☑️ Designed for educators, leaders, & service professionals
When conflict arises, Coach Jae provides a neutral, supportive space for resolution—not litigation.
☑️ Facilitates honest conversations with compassion
☑️ Helps individuals and teams find common ground
☑️ Promotes healing, clarity, and next steps without legal action
Facilitator. Coach. Trainer. Presenter. Speaker.
Janecia 'Coach Jae' Rolland
CEO | MFT | PCC
Coach Jae’s presentation effectively addressed daily challenges while also underscoring the profound impact our work has on the lives of students and families. Your insight and expertise truly resonated with all of us, making the event not just informative but also inspiring. We have received a lot of positive feedback about the training!
Great training! It was engaging and helped to reinforce some of the basics, including therapy/counseling techniques, that will help as we begin our work at our school sites.
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Trauma Informed Leadership Coach
Empowering staff, students, and organizations with transformative workshops & training to navigate challenges, strengthen morale, and drive lasting, positive change.
Restoration Coaching
Empowering clients to reconnect with their purpose, process personal and professional challenges, and cultivate growth through a restorative lens.
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Delivering powerful, thought-provoking keynotes and presentations that inspire transformation, elevate awareness, and spark meaningful dialogue.
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Hey it’s Coach Jae and this podcast is your go-to space for raw, real, and reflective conversations that shake the table. We’re not just talking—we’re elevating awareness, shifting perspectives, and stretching our minds to think beyond our own thinking. If you’re ready to heal, grow, and see yourself and the world through a clearer lens… welcome to the conversation that’s changing lives—one breakthrough at a time.
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With over two decades of cross-sector experience, Coach Jae helps individuals and organizations uncover the impact of trauma and bias—and build restorative, healing-centered spaces for growth.
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Healing starts with awareness, and transformation begins when we choose to lead with compassion—even in the hard conversations.”
– Coach Jae, MFT/PCC
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Coach Jae creates spaces where people feel seen, heard, and empowered—transforming complex challenges into opportunities for growth.
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Testimonials
Wonderful session! The presenter was so clear and delivered content in an engaging way. I especially appreciated the focus on intergenerational trauma and post traumatic slave syndrome. This gave me a lot to think about the framed trauma for me in a new way. I also loved taking a look at the hierarchy of needs, fears, and expectations.
Great content and great presentation. I appreciate meaningful and impactful opportunities to learn more about how we can support our students of color, specifically our AA students.
This topic was really helpful for my practice in addressing and understanding trauma and the impact it has on our students, specifically Black students. Thank you!
Excellent presentation, which covered a lot in a short time. The video content was very effective and educational. The hierarchy of needs is an excellent tool with the modifications presented to us, which explain a lot about what’s happening underneath the iceberg, and all the baggage of society’s crimes African Americans and others have had to carry for centuries.
FAQs
How long does it take to process and ship my order?
Orders take 2 business days to process. All shipments go out every Wednesday.
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What happens if my book doesn’t arrive or arrives damaged?
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Can I cancel or change my order?
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What format is the book available in?
The book is currently available in paperback and hardcover. If additional formats like eBook or audiobook become available, we’ll announce it on the site and via email.
Can I get a signed copy of the book?
Yes! Signed copies are available upon request. Please leave a note during checkout requesting a signature, and we’ll gladly personalize your copy.
Do you offer bulk or wholesale discounts?
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